Emotionally entangled in that mess as well and have that person affect your vibration and your energy. It is your responsibility as a mature person that's learning about how to can take take control of their life how to hold on to themselves right learning how to respond not react and learning when to disengage from someone learning how to Verbally communicate with someone else in a calm way learning how to stand up for yourself I always say, at least for me, I always looked at it like the difficult people that have been in my life that really tested me mentally, emotionally, maybe even spiritually, right?